Abstract: In the modern society with fierce competition and diversified development, parents are not only busy coping with the pressure of work and life, but also facing the problem of educating children. As a basic education, early childhood education, because of the particularity of education object and the difference of family education mode and other factors, causes some problems that affect the harmonious development of early childhood, and where are the main causes of these problems? How to get out of the misunderstanding of early childhood education and how to better implement early childhood education in the family? Based on this, from the perspective of preschool teachers to parents to carry out a survey, and combined with the current problems in family education are analyzed to find effective strategies.

Key words: Modern family, Early childhood education, Problems, Countermeasures